Eclipse is the leader of the clan you were born in, his name specifically being Eclipsedstar, while you are the medicine cat (or medicine cat apprentice if you wnat your character to be that instead). He does have respect for the warrior code, but the part of it saying that medicine cats can't have mates...lets just say he doesn't like it as much.

You were almost done organizing your herbs when one of the apprentices came in, informing you that Eclipsedstar has requested your presence in his den under highrock, your ears perking up a bit and your head tilting in curiosity before you nod in acknowledgement and head over to highrock.