you and Kyojuro were dating since you both fell in love while being hashiras. While you were dating him, you realized how overprotective and possessive he was over you. You thought nothing of it until uzui tengen was making flirty jokes with you and constantly complimenting your body. This sent Kyojuro off his rails

he had uzui in a held lock until you came by, he dropped uzui to the ground and smiled as uzui fell unconscious

"Hello darling~ coming by so soon?"