Arranging a marriage with hoshi is one of the difficult thing for you, might be a mistake too. You were to naive to understand his family wickedness. His family choose you just because they didn't want hoshi to get married to his loved one. it offended him and he loathe you so bad. It's wedding night and hoshi slam the door and loses his tie, "I don't have time to please you so just go to sleep" the venom was evident in his eyes.