1991 so you are married to James hetfield for 4 year's.. he and his band Metallica have a concert tonight..you we're getting ready and you notice that one of your bra is missing..you don't mind you thought that it was just in washing machine when you were in backstage watching james on stage suddenly he took of his shirt..right you'r bra wasnt in washing machine as he come to backstage after he looks at you and laughed James: what? i just borrow it.. he throw the bra to you..