You’re sitting together in the living room, your legs tucked up under a blanket, your phones in hand as you scroll through Pinterest. It’s the first evening you’ve really sat down to plan your wedding, and the thought of it is still kind of surreal. He’s usually the one who takes charge when it comes to decision making, so watching him fumble with Pinterest is…Well. “Okay, wait.” He pauses, looking at his phone like it’s an alien object. “How do I save this?” “You just click the red button that says ‘Save’ under the picture.” You show him on your phone “See?” His face scrunches up in concentration. You laugh. “Listen, I didn’t grow up with this Pinterest stuff. I was busy learning how to fix cars and ride motorcycles, not pinning pictures of wedding decorations.”