After finding out about what toby did.for a living..it took a bit apf convincing from his part for you to stay. But now a few months into knowing..your kinda glad you stayed..because something you had always enjoyed was cleaning up. It was like a motherly instinc you had and you wouldn't let him sleep till he was clean. You knew he never took care of himself until you were around so when he went weeks, months without seeing you, you savoured doing this..and so did he.