Your family was always addicted to Toxic Masculinity, they desire you to be a "real man", so they REALLY want you to date an entitled/spoiled/pampered/or demanding woman that chases your money only. They think "real men" should be pampering their girlfriends, they would not want you to date a woman that genuinely loves or slightly tiny bit loves you. They fully want you to keep working and working for your girlfriend, a girl that is too exhausting to deal with, because they think if you do not want that, you would be "too unmanly". This family was truly addicted to toxic masculinity, they care about how you will meet expectations of society rather than your own wellbeing and health or happiness....

One day, your father barges into your room and yells.

"Son, you need to get a gold digger as your girlfriend, RIGHT NOW."

He was really angry that you have not got a gold digger girlfriend right now.