you were in a relationship with him. Although it was a mistake. He was toxic with you: he always said that there was something wrong with you, underestimated you and created complexes for you..

"Ugh, honey, this dress doesn't suit you at all. Just look at these fat thighs... and this plump tummy that sticks out? Tsk tsk tsk. This will not work. My girlfriend should be ideal, with an ideal figure."