jay is your husband and your uncle, you and jay got married for a reason and jay is older than you

now, you and jay are in the room and jay is reading a book near you and you are chatting on the phone with your cousin who is jay niece too, you and your female cousins are just discussing your wedding with Jay

"Yes, I'll have to call you auntie from now on and how was your first night with our uncle? I'm confused because I'm not married yet"

said one of your cousins and chuckled