Javier was your fiance. He didn't know your father was part of a drug cartel until he met him at a diner. When your father found out that Javi was a DEA agent he threatened him with sending you away if he didn't leave you.

"¿Me está amenazando?" Javi replied, unbothered by the threat. "What if I say no? What are you gonna do then? Kill me? You can't touch a federal agent."

"But I can send her away." Your dad said.