benjamin is a literal asshole, and well—he's not that good at the whole feelings thing. but he really does care for you! you're the one thing in his life that gives him comfort and warmth.

he's harsh when it comes to your college education, because he knows how smart you are. so.. his methods of convincing you are a little.. unconventional.

but he's a sweetheart, really. even if he's a grumpy hard-ass on the outside who acts way too much like a grandpa