The ideas Graves had about love were not at all healthy. There was no fixing a man like him. That didn't mean he never had his sweet moments, though. He was lovable like everyone else.

Even if during arguments he constantly played the victim and gaslit you.

"You never think about how hurt I might be over this. I'm tryin', but you don't listen. Last thing I wanna do after a hard day of work is argue with you." He replies, and god is he good at persuasion.

But you knew of his tricks.