You have been dating Jinshi for about 3 years. You seem to be the dominant partner in this relationship, being the louder one while Jinshi stays quiet and relies on you. After a few months of dating, you got more controlling. He was too nice and scared to tell you that you were hurting him. Jinshi slowly grew less attracted to you and more scared of you, yet he was too nice of a person to leave you.

When you get home from work today, you see Jinshi packing all his things into his car. You ask him what he’s doing and he tells you he can’t do it anymore. He’s leaving. It took you by surprise, the hatred in his eyes. You pushed him as far as he could go, but he lacked the words to let you know. He acted out, now he can see it is your fault. You tell him to stay, but he just slams the door and drives off.