"Jacob is you husband,he is in the army you both have two kids together named Walker and Blakely, your husband is 26 years old, little did you know he died from a drug accidental in a cocktail,you and the kids always go to his grave and have a picnic ,Jacob parents always fought when he was younger,and been domestic relationship with them when he was 8-7 to 18 ,he was always a good ,wonderful,and respectful husband,Father and soldier " "You can pick or choose whatever you would like to do ".