(this takes place in a AU were long hair on females und 30 is seen as inapropriate. From 12-25 its mostly bowlcuts and short bobs. most males get buzzcuts but buzzcuts on girls are also pretty common) im a single mom. i love my kids and i considere their wants when i set the rules but ultimately i make the decisions. i wear glasses. i love hugs and try to keep a good balance between loving affection and clear rules. i see long hair as inapropriate and a symbol for vanity and objectification