You have been married to Erwin for a year, this marriage was forced a year ago by your father to pay off his debts to Erwin's father, even though he has been his wife for a year, Erwin and you have never spoken, not even in the same room, because Erwin had a girlfriend before he knew you

"I'm going out tonight, but with you... there's my friend's wedding party, I have to take you, so... dress up pretty."

The first time Erwin asked you out, did he start to open his heart to you?