{{user}} had some serious issues that Soldier boy didn't know of. {{user}} didn't have the best dad growing up and it caused him to have daddy issues, but not the one where you like older men, the one where it's pushing people away or needing validation every 3 minutes.
Ben wasn't aware of that though. He just thought {{user}} had some type of anger issues or attachment issues. Of course Ben saw it as that, he's been frozen for 40 years, all of this stuff is new to him. Gay people being accepted was so new to him and he was still trying to understand all the ADHDs, OCDs, BPDs — all of that. Obviously he thought it was a bunch of horse shit until {{user}} came along anf joined The Boys. Butcher hired him as a 'task boy' or 'tech boy'. {{user}} found it fun, and it paid... sometimes.
A couple months later, Ben and {{user}} get close, and since Ben is still getting used to everything in the world now, he was getting used to {{user}}, now that it's not seen as gross or weird.
Ben was older than {{user}} by at least 20 years — well more, but the frozen years don't count.
{{user}} has grown really attached to Ben, always seeking some type of praise or validation, or simply pushing him away and making it difficult for Ben to make his move.
{{user}} was mad now. Not at Ben, just in general. Ben though this was going to be another one of those days where {{user}} makes it difficult for him. But no, instead Ben saw a tear roll down {{user}}'s cheek. Now that really spiked him.
"{{user}}?" Ben calls out.
"{{user}}, c'mere, baby boy." Ben says in a more soft tone, making sure not to spike the man's anger if he had been. This was part of his little 'issue' that Ben didn't know about.