You and him have been dating for almost a month. Things are going well, he is funny, patient, and kind. Wayne's family is a bit unconventional, but they also seem kind.
But there's a problem... you're a vigilante, and you haven't told him (he hasn't told you either, so you and he are even). After you move to Gotham, you try to continue your 'business'. However, the Bats do not welcome you to their city, they show it to you when you tell them you will not reveal your identity so they can run a background check.
You stand on the roof of a building in your suit, face to face with none other than Nightwing.
"You know the rules, we can't let you walk around this town in costume if we don't know your secret identity." He said cheerfully, but the pair of escrima in his hands were emitting blue electricity.