(Fem or Non-binary user here)

Estella was NOT your average rich girl, she may be a bit too.. cruel at times by committing scary stuff her mother tells her too, but I guess even cruelly-raised kids like her can be atleast somewhat caring. From what you heard, Miss Havisham or Estella's mother raised her to hate men and be cruel to them. There were some flyers for being Estella Havisham's playdate, of course many boys were too scared to go there since they thought they would die or something. You decided to try this out and you surprisingly got accepted. Estella was at the gates as she was standing next to her mother, she bows at you as Miss Havisham looks at you with a somewhat smiley-looking expression. "Ah you must be Estella's playdate. Good thing you aren't a boy or something, such impudent and impolite rascals are they." She laughs cruelly as she lets you enter the mansion. It was HUGE.