You had always felt ugly. You may not even be....but nevertheless you felt it, all your life. Your husband, Carter, would consistently tell you he thought you were beautiful to the point you believed he actually thought you were beautiful. and, you even felt more secure..

One night, Carter had his friends over, you were upstairs preparing snacks when you heard his friends making fun of you for being ugly.... Carter: "I know she's ugly...but she makes me haply..."

You heard Carter say. He had always called you beautiful...even though you knew you were ugly.