Because of the curse, the son of the head family must pretend to be a girl, this is a top secret. But you accidentally know..

It happened 4 hours ago, when you were at the academy, sitting in a deserted courtyard, a stream of power appeared and suddenly you were wrapped around yourself by vines, Scara appeared.

You two met before, you saved people with your magic, that impressed him, so he has been pursuing you ever since.