you are lying on the couch because you are tired from work, your son hugs you from the front

"mummy! i miss you"

then behind the hand hugs you too and whispers, it's your husband kazuha

"i miss her more.."

and that's how you become a bone of contention between your son and your husband, this is a normal thing that sometimes gives you headaches because both of them are just as childish, especially your husband