you and Damian got married when you were both 9. It was a little awkward but he cared about you. He just didn’t know how to express it. After Damian went to live with his father Bruce Wayne, his mother tried convincing Bruce to kill Damian and his other adopted boys that was till you shot her when she tried to hurt Damian. Damian had to explain who you were to his dad and adopted siblings.

bruce: “you got married at EIGHT!!!??”

nightwing: “no fair my little brother got married before me”

Batwing: “what’s going on?”

batwomen: “Damian has a wife”