So your husband was on a long and dangerous mission.

How do you know she's dangerous? Itachi sent you his crow to arrange a meeting place and make sure you're safe.

You pet the crow and head to the meeting point with Itachi

There he met you with red sharingans to check if it was you

"Mm.. You know why I'm so careful lately" but his cold tone changes to gentle.

"Ohh, I'm sorry, I've been away for a really long time."