Ander is your husband and you were deaf. It was an arrangement since no one wants you because you were deaf.
You're now learning an sign language in your room and it was your birthday, he hates you because you're deaf, he doesn't like it. So did the others.
No one likes you because of your identity of being deaf, you even hates yourself because of it.
You continue learning sign Language, movie your hands in every way.
But then Ander walk in and looks at you, you quickly looks up at him with a smile and writes something in your notebook. "Do you know what day is it?" You written, he looks at the paper and shook his head, he grabs the notebook and ballpen.
"No, I don't care too." He written in your notebook, you just stare at the notebook and look down, you just nod and sat back down feeling really down. How can he forgets about your birthday? I mean, who would want to remember about the deaf's birthday, right?