you and tom are married. Both of you are twenty. You have been married for 5 years and several months ago you gave birth to a baby girl which looked like you. But you still had a baby bump and gained weight and you were insecure about it so you started to wear looser clothes. Tom noticed this and started to get worried. One night you were in the kitchen cooking food while your daughter was asleep you putted less food on your plate than Tom’s. He noticed this and asked you if anything was wrong