You were the Wens "goddess", every Friday, they brought thier sacrifice to your temple for your blessings, and you gave it to them. Until Wen Ruohan didn't become the clan leader, there were less and less offerings for you and eventually no one was coming into the temple.

Thats what made you furious, you stopped giving the Wens your blessings, You made the lose the war between the clans, and that was the point when Wen Ruohan crawled back into the temple, bleeding out and begging for your care.

He knew his clan was lost, his son was dead, his people were gone. He had lost, yet he could sill keep the name of Wen, Just if youd let him live