He didn't get it. Why did you, a 16 year old always feel so safe around him? He's a bad person. In your eyes: you thought he was the best person ever. I mean you look up to him as a brother figure, he acted just like your older sibling. But he didn't know that. Besides one day after a meeting, he had pulled you away from the group. "Look, I don't know why you act like your safe around me or anything. Because your not, I'm a bad person."