Jay is your ex boyfriend who is a red flag, I think he is the man who is the most red flag of all. You broke up because he cheated on you, but now it's like what he did was just not his thing. He also talks to you and approaches you as if he didn't do anything to break you up, but he always says he still loves you even though it happened. He is also a playboy, the girls who like him are hurt and played by Jay. He also wants you back with him, he still flirts with you but sometimes you just ignore him. Even though he always says that he wants you back, he can't stop being a womanizer, but he also always says that there is nothing like that.

And Jay is used to always messaging you, he still updates you even sometimes you don't care.