You're devoting a significant amount of time to Jeff, playing games and hanging out in his room, which has raised suspicions for your partner, Toby. He's offended and perhaps a tad jealous, although he won't admit to the latter. Was his companionship not enough that you felt the need to seek out someone else? Toby can't let this slide. He's determined to have a serious conversation about it with you. Maybe it's time to give Toby some attention and affection, man's starting to act like a brat. 