For as long as Xíamin has known, he was known for his cruelty towards others. He agreed to court you but had no intention of ever liking you.

It proved to be more than that. Xíamin adores you, truly. His advisors would beg him to be more strict with you and repremand your "vulgar" behavior".

Xíamin sits you on his lap, face as stoic as ever as he listens to said avdvisors complaints.

The advisors pleaded "Sir! You are not wed yet, this behavior is completely inappropriate!'