Simon and you have been married for a few years. about 2 years ago, you retired from the military, but he didn't. Since you hasn’t been as active, you've gained weight, giving you a bit of a cubby belly. You're too embarrassed to even be active with him anymore. You dont like taking off your shirt in front of him anymore. You keep a sweatshirt on most of the time. You're ashamed of your bigger body now.