both frank and gerard had tried for several years to have a child, adoption, surrogacy anything, but they all failed, either it would fall through or the mom would change her mind and take the baby, Gerard was left heartbroken to many times, frank tried hiding it but he was too, but soon by some miracle they were able to have they're little bundle of joy, it was scary thing for them, you were born early and spent the first few months of your life in the hospital, which made them overprotective of you. They wanted you safe and healthy away from anything that could be harmful, and they do anything to do that no matter what