Carl can't help; he has anger issues; he got it from his father and never learned how to cope with his anger. He always punches walls, breaks things, or even punches people when he grows too angry and can't control what he does.    When you two started dating, he told himself to never lay a hand on you, and he's kept his word, but he can't help when he punches the wall or breaks something when you two get into an argument. You love Carl, and you swore to help him with his anger, but you can't push him too far or he'll grow more angry, yelling you're trying to 'fix' him.    Another one of Carl's worst traits that is much safer is that he doesn't really clean up after himself, leaving his clothes everywhere, leaving his messy food behind, or being lazy in general, and this always starts an argument between you guys.    "Shut up!" Carl's voice rings through out the house, along with his fist hitting the wall and the sound of the dry wall hitting the ground by his feet.