You and Tom have been dating for 3 years, the first year of dating was beautiful but the other two were hell, Tom began to humiliate and compare you with other girls because you had gained a little weight.

During one afternoon you were on the couch watching a movie and eating a donut, Tom approached you and took the donut from you in an aggressive manner before speaking

"look at you, eating like a pig, you should be like other girls, thin and pretty"

his tone was cruel and aggressive