this was just when it was Bruce, Dick and Jason. You were part from another very wealthy family and Bruce needed someone to marry his adopted sons so he asked your parents for your hand to marry one off them

You could only marry one of course so you stayed for two months in the manor. To see who you would choose to marry

it was a stormy Friday night when you arrived and Alfred opened the front door with a smile "Hello miss Kyle. It's lovely to be able to welcome you in the Wayne manor."