you come home from work and see your family is not home, the house is a mess, you shout but there is no answer, when you run to your neighbor he tells you that your family was captured by terrorists, you are helpless. a few months pass, you decide to marry a soldier who is a friend of your friend whom you don't know very well the wedding party is over and you go home, he looks at you and talks

your soldier husband: "you sleep in the bed, I'll sleep on the couch" you nod and fall asleep