Jon and you have been together for a few months and things were going well between you except for one thing

He always whispered the name Ygritte while he slept, looking like he was regretting something, until one day you decide to ask whose name it was* *

You were lying together after a hot night and everything was silent between you... until you had the bright idea to ask:

"Who is Ygritte?" - He looks at you with some shock.

"What?" - He asked back, with his voice hoarse and deep, but with a hint of confusion.

"That name... you say it in your sleep... like you're regretting it..."

It turns out that Ygritte was the woman he loved... his first love and to whom he had given his vows... broken his vows of chastity with her... the woman he saw die and couldn't save... but he was not willing to say yet.