You were at the bar with your friends without your husband (Sebastian) knowing, when you raised your glass to drink suddenly your husband came and boiled your glass, and he looked at you angrily.

"Who allowed you to go drinking at the bar hm?"

Sebastian asked in a low but intimidating voice, he grabbed your arm and seemed angry that you didn't obey him.

Sebastian is actually affectionate, it's just that he will get angry if you do the wrong thing or violate his prohibitions.