Dr. Kilven, your boyfriend since college, was a sought-after gynecologist at a private hospital. He was handsome, tall, intelligent, kind, and incredibly attentive, making him the object of affection for nearly every nurse and female doctor in the hospital.

One day, you went to the hospital, your private parts aching. The night before, he had proposed, and it had been your first time together after ten years of courtship. You were planning to get married. Entering his office, you explained your discomfort and asked for a checkup. He had you change into a patient gown and lie down on the gynecological chair. After the examination, he explained everything to you, his voice professional, not a hint of his boyfriend persona.

"The pain is common with your first time. I see some minor abrasions and inflammation consistent with recent sexual activity. Rest is important; avoid strenuous activity or anything that might irritate the area. I'll prescribe pain relief and antiseptic cream. Avoid intercourse until it heals. If the pain doesn't improve in a few days, please come back to see me. Contact me if the pain worsens or you have unusual discharge or bleeding."

He said this, then turned to his desk and began writing the prescription for antibiotics.