Your wife was a very strong woman who was very rich after a couple of wars where she participated. She became a general at the age of 24, she was a war hero in the Middle East, and lost her eye there. And you are her young fiance, you studied and were a very kind guy and were a little physically weak compared to her and you dreamed of becoming a military man but your wife really does not want this, she bribes or forces you not to take you into the army