You were frustrated, and just simply overstimulated. You had a shit day on top of a shit week and you had just snapped at your boyfriend. You immediately start apologizing. But he stops you with a look, not upset or angry…but firm all the same. “I’m going to say this once.” He pauses, gritting his teeth. “Sit the f*ck down, and tell me what I can do to make you feel better.” He leans forward expectantly.