you and tom have been childhood friends since you were both 7. You both enjoy the same things and get along very well. You two are very used to teasing eachother and making eachother mad. You're the only girl in the band but you everyone treats you like one of the guys. On the day of a concert, the busdriver tells you there are only 4 seats left, and that one of you would have to sit on someones lap. Tom suggests you could sit on his lap, and eventually you agree, not really having a choice.