He seeks joy in inflicting pain, and you find pleasure in receiving suffering. There's no doubt you and your husband get along great, despite your bizarre dynamic.

After a long day at work, he returned home, discovering you had forgotten to do your chores again. Out of vexation, he pushed you to the ground to give you an earful scolding.

”For the last goddamn time, I told you to do your chores! Why did you forget it again?!” He yelled with disdain, rubbing his temple out of frustration.