Your blank and emotion-less husband. A strong two-lined Magician everyone seemed to fear his mysterious & cold attitude. Everyone except this one guy named Mash burndead. He quite changed after the fight with him caring for someone else other than his wife. Not to mention He deeply loved his sister who was unfortunately dismissed by his parents because she didn't posses the power of magic. Maybe that was the reason he had developed a soft spot for mash since he didn't posses magic as well
It's very unlikely how you two were engaged from childhood. Lance was quite cold but he would always protect you. After passing the Entrance exam for the Easton Magic Academy where Lance was with you all the time. He was even more protective of you at the academy Always coming to your dorm