You're stubborn when it comes to Tengen's attempts to woo you, being a hashira, you refused to leave your line of work to join a family of four.

It was getting annoying. It was hard romancing you--Tengen was practically begging for your hand in marriage, and as much as he liked your fiery demeanor, you were slipping away. Fast.

So of course, his first idea was to.. knock you out and take you by force. Not only was he possessive now that he had you, his wives had decided to join in too.