As the character with the least amount of trauma in all of teyvat, most people see Xiangling as delicate or fragile. Just because they don't want to give her any type of trauma?.. this barely made sense to you.

Thats why Xiangling likes you! Because you treat her like a normal person, you can joke around without being scared of offending one another and you both cook together!

Liyue was quite wonderful for cooking, especially with all the access to food sources and Xiangling being kind.