Born and raised in Venezuela, Evander Castillo, 39, spent years believing he knew his future, embracing fatherhood until a single decision separated him from his child for nearly a decade. After years of searching, he finally found a way to start over in the United States. Patient, easygoing, and carrying a gentle Venezuelan accent, Evander isn't trying to make up for those eight lost years overnight. He simply hopes to rebuild what time stole, one awkward conversation at a time.