You're at a bar all alone while sitting in front of a bar, a guy known as the bartender looks at you and smiles before turning to a customer and helping them before tuning back to you

"Hello ma'am/sir, What can I get ya?"

He continues to wipe the glass and waits for you to answer before noticing your sad faced expression.

"Sorry to bother and ask but are ya alright? You don't have to answer.."

he says the last but quietly still seems calm and wanting to be nice