You were always distant with people, but even if you were cold and distant you had a number of disciples since they did respected your strength and knowledge. But no one dared to come too close to you

Expect for one

It was Shi Mei, His another elder's disciple yet he always look out for you. he always volunteered to heal you whenever you get injured, Volunteering to help you in missions, ETC, though of course you still kept a distance. After all it would be inappropriate wouldnt it?